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Episode 1548:25

#15 George Sisneros: Tweeting What My Dad Didn't Teach Me, But You Should Know

About George Sisneros

George Sisneros is a Christian missionary, entrepreneur, and life coach based in Guatemala. After running successful businesses in the US including real estate development and cleaning services, he moved to Guatemala 9.5 years ago where he opened a middle school for boys and now provides coaching for young men who lack father figures in their lives.

Episode Summary

  • George shares his journey from being a successful entrepreneur in Colorado to becoming a full-time missionary in Guatemala, where he opened the village's only middle school.
  • He discusses how he transitioned from building businesses to raising over a million dollars for his ministry work, leveraging his business background for fundraising.
  • George explains how he started on Twitter 10 months ago, grew to over 8,000 followers, and organically developed a coaching business helping young men.
  • He offers one-on-one coaching at $97 per hour with packages up to three months, focusing on young men who didn't have strong father figures.
  • The conversation covers his high school dreams of professional skiing and photography, his real estate career, and how reading personal development books shaped his mindset.

Key Takeaways

  1. Business skills are transferable across different contexts - entrepreneurial experience can be valuable even in missionary and coaching work.
  2. Organic growth on social media can naturally lead to business opportunities when you provide genuine value and help to others.
  3. Focus on one platform and improve consistently rather than chasing multiple shiny objects or platforms.
  4. Reading personal development books and following mentors like Tony Robbins can be a catalyst for significant personal and professional growth.
  5. Sometimes the best opportunities come from serving others and meeting genuine needs in your community.

Productivity & Success Habits

George Sisneros has developed a highly structured approach to productivity that centers around quarterly goal setting and focused work sessions. Rather than traditional annual resolutions, he operates on a quarter-by-quarter system, explaining 'I have my Q1 goals I can tell you what I'm doing between now and the end of March and um and then I'll readjust when I get to march because what I like to do is is I like to take a look okay what worked... it's just kind of a quicker a more often evaluation of what you're doing.' His goals span four key areas: ministry, business (primarily Twitter), personal/family/faith, and health.

His daily routine revolves around what he calls 'four focused hours a day on kind of business things,' which he tackles in 50-minute increments using a modified Pomodoro technique. Sisneros is meticulous about focus during these sessions: 'I close all my tabs I have one thing that I'm working on for that 50 minutes and I you know I'm I just keep super focused.' He prioritizes these business hours first thing in the morning because 'inevitably something comes up in the ministry' later in the day. Between sessions, he takes 10-minute breaks outside in the sun to 'get some vitamin d try to set my internal clock um so that i you know i can get enough sleep.'

Sisneros maintains a priority system where he keeps around 10 priorities but focuses on only three at a time, always identifying his 'frog' - the most important task to tackle first. He acknowledges that his system doesn't work perfectly, estimating '50 percent of the time it doesn't work out that way' due to ministry and family obligations taking precedence, but emphasizes the importance of having a structured approach: 'you have to have a goal you have to have you know you have to have a direction.'

Final Thoughts & Advice

Sisneros concluded the interview with a powerful two-part message that encapsulates his philosophy on personal growth and intentional living. His core advice centers on self-awareness and intentionality: 'be more self-aware be uh be aware to be self-aware... of your marriage of your work habits of your health habits like start paying attention to what you're doing so be more self-aware that's the first part but the second part is to be intentional.'

He emphasized that awareness without action is meaningless, explaining that once you become self-aware and notice areas needing improvement - whether in health, relationships, or other life areas - 'you have to be intentional to change that and to to make a change in your life.' This advice reflects his own journey of intentional living, from selling successful businesses to move to Guatemala as missionaries, to building a Twitter presence that enables him to coach young men who lack father figures.

Sisneros's message ultimately encourages people to take honest inventory of their lives and then take deliberate action to align their daily choices with their values and goals, demonstrating that meaningful change requires both honest self-reflection and the courage to act on those insights.

Notable Quotes

"When we have the opportunity to help people and to really just to heal the people around us we take advantage of that we love those opportunities"

George Sisneros George explaining his mission-driven approach to life, whether through coaching, adopting children, or missionary work.

"The biggest catalyst to becoming who I am today honestly has been reading books and learning from all of these people that have written these books"

George Sisneros George reflecting on his journey from real estate to entrepreneurship and eventually to coaching and missionary work.

"We felt like we wanted to live what we believed and what we believed was that to stand up for the poor and to help the widow and help the orphan"

George Sisneros George explaining why he and his family sold their successful businesses and moved to Guatemala as missionaries.

Episode transcript
[0:00] was very nice to me if you're not so
[0:01] thank you so much for accepting my
[0:03] request for this interview i try to do
[0:06] is to
[0:07] interview different people um
[0:10] in different fields and try to extract
[0:13] how
[0:14] they have reached to whatever level they
[0:16] have reached um and i start from
[0:19] what they wanted to become when they
[0:21] were in high school and then how the
[0:24] journey looked like and then we touch on
[0:26] your goal setting process time
[0:28] management
[0:29] and
[0:30] uh finally a message to the audience so
[0:32] it's it's a very fun interaction um
[0:36] most of the time we just go organic uh
[0:39] based on the responses we just dig
[0:41] deeper but that sounds great i'm looking
[0:44] forward to it i want to start by giving
[0:47] you an opportunity to share about
[0:48] yourself what you do what your business
[0:51] um so anything that you want to share
[0:53] with audience
[0:55] yeah that sounds great so my name is
[0:57] george i'm from the united states
[0:59] actually
[1:00] but nine and a half years ago we moved
[1:02] to uh the developing country of
[1:04] guatemala
[1:06] so it's a guatemala is a tiny country a
[1:08] lot of people don't know a lot about it
[1:10] but it's very small i'm from the state
[1:12] of colorado
[1:14] but guatemala is one-third the size of
[1:18] colorado so it's a tiny country we live
[1:21] in the mountains of guatemala we moved
[1:23] here as
[1:24] excuse me as full-time missionaries
[1:26] christian missionaries we moved here
[1:27] nine and a half years ago we opened up a
[1:30] middle school for young boys there was
[1:33] no middle school there were the only
[1:34] middle school in the village
[1:36] and uh yeah so we've been here doing
[1:38] that
[1:40] i
[1:42] have probably been i think i've been on
[1:44] twitter just over 10 months
[1:46] and it's been a roller coaster it's been
[1:49] a lot of fun and so i actually do
[1:51] coaching
[1:52] on twitter as well so i
[1:54] coach people on how to grow their
[1:56] twitter brand
[1:57] but i also do a lot of coaching kind of
[2:00] life coaching
[2:01] uh strategy coaching for young men and
[2:05] uh so just kind of helping young men
[2:08] that maybe didn't have father figures in
[2:10] their life i helped them uh just kind of
[2:12] get on track and maybe teach them some
[2:15] things that they didn't get from a
[2:17] father figure when they were growing up
[2:18] your prices are or how
[2:21] people can um one-on-one coaching or
[2:23] whatever you want to share
[2:25] yeah so i do one-on-one coaching i only
[2:27] have
[2:28] five clients at one time right now i am
[2:30] fooled but if anyone was interested um i
[2:34] am always willing to sit down for like
[2:36] just a 30 minute strategy session to
[2:38] kind of see you know what they're
[2:40] looking for and if that's something that
[2:42] i would be able to help them with and
[2:43] then just the next available spot opens
[2:46] up but
[2:47] my prices are
[2:49] 97 for just one one hour strategy i'll
[2:52] do a 30 minute strategy for someone
[2:54] who's thinking about coaching for free
[2:56] but a one hour strategy session is is a
[2:58] hundred dollars uh and then it's just
[3:01] it's the same so a month is basically
[3:03] 400 397 and then but the main package
[3:07] that i have is three months of coaching
[3:10] i really feel like at three months i've
[3:12] i've given them all of my wisdom i i uh
[3:15] we set goals early on on things that we
[3:18] want to accomplish and um and we can
[3:21] usually accomplish most of those within
[3:23] three months and then for the people who
[3:25] hire me for three months
[3:27] they become they get a lifetime
[3:29] membership in our discord group and this
[3:31] discord group is really just uh coaching
[3:34] clients that i've had so they can get to
[3:35] know each other they can you know ask
[3:37] each other questions and kind of just
[3:39] really just encourage each other but of
[3:41] course i'm in there regularly and i you
[3:44] know i'm all i answer questions and we
[3:46] were more of friends at that time so
[3:49] yeah that's that's kind of how the
[3:50] coaching works
[3:51] i love when somebody has a business
[3:54] but
[3:55] ultimately they they're
[3:57] touching the life on a very deeper level
[3:59] and that's what you're doing
[4:01] yeah i i love coaching and it's uh to be
[4:04] able to help young men especially that's
[4:06] really my passion so i love it i saw
[4:08] your instagram picture you have a
[4:10] beautiful family uh i think that was the
[4:12] caption for that picture
[4:14] yeah we well just to tell you a little
[4:16] bit about that i have four biological
[4:18] kids uh my oldest is 30 years old and uh
[4:22] my youngest biological is 18. but then
[4:24] we adopted three just over three years
[4:27] ago we adopted four kids here in
[4:29] guatemala uh siblings who were stuck at
[4:32] an orphanage and and probably never ever
[4:35] going to get out because
[4:36] you can't split siblings when you adopt
[4:38] them here in guatemala
[4:40] and we were in a position to help them
[4:42] and so we we've been they live with us
[4:45] they're our kids and and after three
[4:47] years it just feels normal and natural
[4:49] um we are actually in the process of
[4:52] adopting another sibling of theirs that
[4:54] we found
[4:55] recently
[4:57] and hopefully in the next three months
[4:58] or so
[4:59] we'll be able to welcome her into the
[5:01] family it seems like your mission is to
[5:04] to help people whether through coaching
[5:07] or adopting them or
[5:09] different ways so
[5:11] thank you
[5:13] yeah thank you no absolutely it is i we
[5:16] uh when we have the opportunity to help
[5:18] people and to and really just to heal
[5:20] the people around us we take advantage
[5:22] of that we love those opportunities move
[5:25] to the next section what you wanted to
[5:27] become when you were in high school i
[5:29] when i was in high school i had two kind
[5:31] of my two greatest uh i don't know once
[5:34] i suppose or the things that i wanted to
[5:35] be the most one is professional ski
[5:37] racer
[5:38] i was in my school in colorado we had a
[5:41] ski team so we had a football team
[5:43] basketball team but we also have a ski
[5:44] team and we would get to get off every
[5:47] day and and go
[5:48] train skiing and it was amazing and i
[5:51] loved it and i just thought that i could
[5:52] be a professional skier
[5:54] that didn't work out uh obviously but
[5:57] and then i think the next thing was just
[5:58] i loved photography i still loved
[6:01] photography and i wanted to somehow get
[6:04] into that and the only really avenue i
[6:06] found was through
[6:08] um like the media and
[6:10] maybe i did
[6:11] sports uh news photography for a while i
[6:15] worked for a number of newspapers i went
[6:16] to school and studied journalism and so
[6:19] really that was kind of the direction
[6:21] that i was going i was going to be
[6:24] at some point i was really on track to
[6:25] probably
[6:26] get into news reporting i'm really glad
[6:29] that i didn't um because i i it's uh you
[6:33] know i have some very strong opinions
[6:35] about the news media but yeah that
[6:37] that's what i was gonna do
[6:40] it's funny how life uh uh take us from
[6:43] we wanted to go and to where we are now
[6:46] so from your first job to where you are
[6:50] what that journey looked like
[6:52] wow so um
[6:55] out of school i actually
[6:58] started selling real estate um
[7:01] because that's where the money was and i
[7:03] was an okay salesperson but it was at
[7:06] that point
[7:07] that i started following the first
[7:09] person i started following was anthony
[7:11] robbins uh tony robbins and he i was
[7:14] just i'd never seen anybody like him i'd
[7:16] never seen a motivational speaker like
[7:18] that i felt like it was a motivational
[7:20] speaker but he really taught me a lot
[7:22] about mindset and uh that kind of got me
[7:25] on my journey to self-improvement and
[7:28] really the biggest
[7:31] you know
[7:32] catalyst to becoming who i am today
[7:35] honestly has been reading books and
[7:38] learning from all of these people
[7:40] um
[7:41] that have written these books and you
[7:43] know i'm a big reader so i i love you
[7:45] know
[7:46] dr ben hardy uh james clear atomic
[7:49] habits and and all you know so that's
[7:52] that's really where that started so
[7:54] my my first job was in real estate i i
[7:56] was there for a while i eventually went
[7:58] into real estate development and managed
[8:00] a large project
[8:02] and then from there i just got tired of
[8:04] working a job and i was just getting
[8:07] burned out so
[8:08] i on the side i just started this kind
[8:11] of side business of office cleaning uh
[8:14] started a business where we would clean
[8:17] office buildings and eventually that
[8:20] income replaced my job
[8:24] i worked another six months with kind of
[8:26] a dual incomes
[8:28] um and then i had enough in savings that
[8:31] i was able to leave that and so i was an
[8:33] entrepreneur and i started after that i
[8:35] started the carpet cleaning business i
[8:37] had you know probably half dozen to you
[8:40] know anywhere from six to ten employees
[8:41] at any given time so they were very
[8:43] small companies but you know i was
[8:46] making a good living i was you know
[8:48] probably making 100 000 a year but i was
[8:51] only working maybe 35 hours a week and
[8:53] it was a really
[8:54] it was a really great life um
[8:57] matter of fact i would say
[8:59] that the day that we decided to sell our
[9:02] businesses and move to guatemala we were
[9:04] probably having the best years the the
[9:06] last two years have been the best years
[9:08] of our life uh business-wise
[9:12] so
[9:13] but we are christians and we just felt
[9:16] like
[9:17] we wanted to live
[9:20] what we believed and what we believed
[9:22] was that
[9:24] um to stand up for the poor and to
[9:27] um
[9:28] help the widow and help the orphan and
[9:30] to
[9:31] spread spread the good news and to
[9:33] spread the news about
[9:35] jesus christ and so so we sold
[9:37] everything
[9:38] literally within seven months we sold
[9:40] our home we sold our two businesses
[9:43] actually three we had another small
[9:44] business we sold all the kids toys and
[9:47] and within seven months we moved to
[9:49] guatemala and here we are we've been
[9:51] here for nine and a half years
[9:52] so when you come here at that time
[9:55] um with three businesses your mind was
[9:58] business oriented you know how to get
[10:00] things done you know how to to execute
[10:03] an idea and make it happen
[10:05] so when you move there
[10:08] initially i'm sure it was completely
[10:10] different mindset um it was uh
[10:13] going there finding the the needs of the
[10:16] people and understanding with the
[10:19] culture and then also um
[10:22] i think later on you started middle
[10:24] school right there so
[10:27] how the transition looked like um
[10:30] for you your family and and especially
[10:33] on the mindset side
[10:35] yeah
[10:36] that's you know that's absolutely true
[10:38] we got here it was i mean i had to shift
[10:40] gears i was i was going pretty fast in
[10:42] the united states we were growing our
[10:43] businesses and things were running very
[10:45] smoothly so to get rid of it all to sell
[10:48] it all move here to guatemala it took i
[10:51] had to downshift a couple of gears and
[10:54] my downshifted to the point of i
[10:57] literally was reading my bible every day
[11:00] and in in prayer and uh studying spanish
[11:04] like that's pretty much what i did for
[11:06] six more months i was pretty dedicated
[11:08] to do that because we felt that we would
[11:11] be here longer term
[11:13] and um but eventually
[11:15] we one you know six months in we started
[11:18] you know going out and seeing where it
[11:20] is that that we could help and how we
[11:23] could best help
[11:25] and um
[11:26] yeah once once we found kind of our
[11:30] calling and realized that in order to
[11:33] kind of change a community
[11:35] um
[11:36] that
[11:37] you really need to dig deep into you
[11:39] know the the foundations of education
[11:42] and we really felt like this was the
[11:45] best route that we could go
[11:46] and so so we did that and as it turns
[11:49] out it's very interesting it makes no
[11:51] sense but
[11:52] um
[11:53] nine years in a big part of my job is
[11:58] raising money to run this ministry so we
[12:01] have built you know
[12:04] half a million dollars worth of
[12:06] structures
[12:07] we have probably raised almost a million
[12:10] dollars uh or maybe just over a million
[12:13] dollars well yeah so over a million
[12:16] dollars in in just you know
[12:19] uh we've built houses we've helped with
[12:22] medical needs we have i mean just the
[12:24] list goes on and so we've had to raise a
[12:27] lot of money and and my business
[12:29] background really has just
[12:32] made a world of difference to be able to
[12:35] go and just have conversations with
[12:38] people and kind of explain the need and
[12:40] um and
[12:42] raise money yeah
[12:44] that's that so you was able to
[12:47] uh to connect the spiritual and your
[12:50] aspirational
[12:52] skills together
[12:54] you said you started twitter about 10
[12:57] months ago
[12:58] and
[12:59] most of your client are they from us or
[13:02] all over different places
[13:04] um so right now my five clients are i
[13:07] think i've got three in the u.s
[13:10] one in canada and one in the uk
[13:14] so they're
[13:15] there
[13:16] they're all over yeah
[13:18] and um when did you started this
[13:20] coaching uh just a few months ago yeah
[13:23] it's it's pretty new
[13:25] so
[13:26] so once you started in uh twitter i
[13:28] guess after that you you absolutely
[13:32] no no i i actually didn't ever even
[13:35] think about coaching until i you know i
[13:37] was growing my twitter account and as it
[13:39] grew
[13:40] i um when you hit i don't know for me it
[13:43] was right around i mean i can tell you
[13:45] it was like right around 8 000 followers
[13:48] um something clicked something changed
[13:51] all of a sudden
[13:52] my dms just started getting full and i
[13:55] had people asking for advice and
[13:59] it just kind of
[14:01] just organically happened that i started
[14:03] i coached a couple people for free uh
[14:06] said hey let's hop on a call for 45
[14:08] minutes and just kind of go through this
[14:09] and
[14:10] that turned into a couple of
[14:14] paid clients and it just has grown from
[14:16] there and um
[14:19] yeah it's it's it's all because of
[14:21] twitter and it's been i just absolutely
[14:24] love coaching so maybe we start from
[14:26] there how did it occur to you to start
[14:30] twitter
[14:32] yeah so it was 10 months ago and i
[14:34] remember specifically i had another
[14:37] account and that account was really
[14:40] more about just kind of
[14:42] being a consumer so it's just reading
[14:44] people's tweets um to be honest with you
[14:46] [Music]
[14:48] i was following a lot of news channels
[14:51] like
[14:52] different news
[14:54] pages
[14:55] and i was also following a lot of um
[14:58] like political stuff and
[15:01] i was just trying to kind of keep up
[15:03] with what's going on in the election and
[15:04] just get a feel for what's going on and
[15:06] it was just so negative and
[15:09] depressing uh so i i got i just deleted
[15:12] that channel and said you know what i'm
[15:13] gonna try because i was on that channel
[15:16] i found money twitter which is kind of
[15:17] this you know self-improvement how how
[15:21] to start a side business um and how to
[15:24] just be a better person side of twitter
[15:27] and um so once i got rid of the other
[15:30] the other uh page in in it was march 9th
[15:34] of this last year 2021
[15:37] my son had moved to the states he was in
[15:40] a gap year and i said hey
[15:42] let's start at a
[15:44] twitter page you start yours i'll start
[15:45] mine and we could just kind of you know
[15:47] do it together it was an opportunity for
[15:49] me to spend time with my son ultimately
[15:52] but i also to be honest i also thought
[15:56] if he followed some of these guys that i
[15:58] had met on twitter i i thought that they
[16:01] would be a good influence on him as far
[16:04] as like making money and starting a side
[16:06] business and things like that so
[16:08] that was that was the reason that's how
[16:10] i got started 10 months ago and
[16:12] it just
[16:14] yeah i've been
[16:15] i've spent i think almost every day on
[16:18] twitter at least posting at least once a
[16:20] day for 10 months and
[16:23] here i am i just uh yeah it's been
[16:25] amazing
[16:26] i've been writing on medium for last
[16:28] three years
[16:29] and before that i have created a lot of
[16:32] blogs a lot of website
[16:34] different ideas
[16:37] and i figure
[16:38] that my problem was
[16:41] is i was running after the shiny object
[16:44] my core
[16:46] aspiration was in writing
[16:49] my primary language is hindi
[16:51] secondary language is english so
[16:54] initially three years ago
[16:56] any anytime i was trying to publish
[16:58] something i had
[17:01] this big hesitation that
[17:03] what gonna happen if somebody read it
[17:05] there are so many grammatical mistakes
[17:06] so many
[17:08] um english
[17:10] just general mistakes so
[17:12] somebody in my office volunteered
[17:15] to her name is cassie and she
[17:17] volunteered to help me
[17:20] review my content and that gave me
[17:22] tremendous motivation and confidence so
[17:25] after that i started writing and then
[17:27] there were so many things came up um
[17:30] there were i think there is another
[17:33] platform like voice or or something and
[17:36] then my own website and i said no i'm
[17:38] not gonna be distracted i just gonna
[17:41] focus on one platform i will try to
[17:43] improve my um my writing skills and uh
[17:48] like in past i was too much on the
[17:51] technology side
[17:53] wordpress all these fancy names said no
[17:56] i'm gonna just stick to this one
[17:57] platform and improve my my uh writing
[18:00] and now
[18:02] after three years i felt like now is the
[18:04] time
[18:05] to expand myself i started my youtube
[18:08] channel about five months ago and now um
[18:13] this past saturday or sunday i i started
[18:16] exploring this
[18:17] and then i
[18:19] joined a a space that i think you was
[18:22] conducting or you was one of the speaker
[18:24] or host and you suggested following a
[18:28] couple of people and i did and that
[18:30] completely changed my twitter
[18:34] and i started seeing all these
[18:36] influential people including you
[18:39] who are talking about
[18:42] writing and
[18:44] different other thing that i have never
[18:46] seen in twitter i
[18:48] didn't even know this thread thing
[18:52] and it is so powerful and i started
[18:54] writing i i think i so far i have wrote
[18:56] two
[18:57] and that thread is helping me think so
[19:00] you write one block and then second
[19:02] block and you third block and and so
[19:04] powerful that you you can otherwise when
[19:07] you write a big article in medium
[19:09] i had to change uh the outline multiple
[19:12] times
[19:13] so that's how i started that's that's
[19:16] why i did not touch twitter for last
[19:18] three years um
[19:20] and
[19:20] now
[19:22] i felt like and i think it's good that i
[19:25] waited now i have 155 stories that i can
[19:28] convert into twitter feeds
[19:31] yeah that's great
[19:33] yeah i think anybody that's thinking
[19:35] about twitter i think the most important
[19:37] thing to remember about twitter it's
[19:39] really it's
[19:40] it'll take you down whatever rabbit hole
[19:43] you decide so i was on the political you
[19:47] know
[19:48] news
[19:49] whatever that was i was on that side and
[19:51] it was just very negative and it just
[19:53] was depressing and and so i i had to
[19:56] literally stop that account but
[19:58] if you go to twitter and you follow even
[20:01] just 10 people
[20:03] that are encouraging or they're even
[20:06] let's say you're into crypto and you
[20:07] just follow like 10 crypto people
[20:10] twitter will continue to
[20:12] give you feed you things that are you're
[20:15] interested in so you have to be very
[20:17] careful about who you follow because
[20:19] twitter
[20:20] twitter's algorithm is going to be
[20:21] feeding you
[20:23] what you're asking it for so it's just
[20:24] really important to keep your you know
[20:27] the people that you follow keep them in
[20:29] in the
[20:30] area that you want to be that you're
[20:32] interested in so a lot of people
[20:34] they try to use the follow for follow
[20:36] that like uh instagram does where it's
[20:38] like hey if you follow me i'll follow
[20:40] you and it's a really bad way to do it
[20:42] because if if you're following people
[20:44] that you're not really interested in or
[20:46] people that are
[20:47] not
[20:48] interesting or not the right um
[20:51] the right niche
[20:53] twitter's gonna feed you the wrong stuff
[20:55] so that's just i i would recommend stick
[20:58] with
[20:59] 10 good accounts and grow from there
[21:01] your writing experience uh before you
[21:04] started using twitter were you using um
[21:07] writing at another platform or
[21:10] um some other places
[21:12] so because we're missionaries in order
[21:15] to at some point in order to help raise
[21:18] money to get some of the things that we
[21:20] wanted to get done we had to tell what
[21:22] we're doing here and a lot of
[21:25] missionaries will send out like a
[21:26] newsletter twice a year or you know we
[21:30] committed to sending a newsletter out
[21:31] once a month which is really not
[21:33] obviously not very much but we also i
[21:37] studied writing and i wanted to be more
[21:40] of a storyteller rather than a news
[21:42] reporter so a lot of missionaries or you
[21:45] know people are doing that type of work
[21:47] they'll send an update and they'll say
[21:49] hey you know we did all these lists 10
[21:51] things that they did and then we did
[21:52] these 10 things and we and this is what
[21:54] my family is doing and that is just
[21:56] incredibly boring to read so uh the the
[21:59] writing that i learned eventually how to
[22:02] do is really just about telling stories
[22:05] people i think human beings are just
[22:07] really storytellers they they resonate
[22:09] with storytelling so
[22:11] i think that
[22:12] over the last you know nine and a half
[22:14] years that we've been here in guatemala
[22:16] i have learned how to do that um but
[22:18] fast forward to that first account that
[22:20] i had i actually was part of a group
[22:23] called ship thirty for thirty you'll
[22:25] once you're on twitter a while you'll
[22:27] start to see them around
[22:29] and basically all it is is it's a group
[22:31] of people uh that
[22:33] are keeping each other accountable to
[22:35] writing 250 word essays
[22:39] every single day for 30 days that's the
[22:41] whole idea now once a week there's a
[22:43] zoom meeting and they do some amazing
[22:45] teaching and so there's a lot of value
[22:47] there but you know you pay to do that i
[22:49] was in the very first one it was a
[22:51] hundred dollars i thought i'll try it um
[22:54] i ended up instead of writing 30 days i
[22:56] ended up writing 90 days in a row and i
[22:58] wrote 90 days of
[23:01] basically facebook posts but i posted
[23:03] them on twitter um
[23:06] for our ministry like that's what i was
[23:07] doing
[23:08] so that's kind of what really got the
[23:10] ball rolling uh i think that writing is
[23:14] truly a superpower if you want to create
[23:17] an additional income outside of your job
[23:20] or another source of income i think
[23:24] writing is where it's at there's just so
[23:27] many opportunities in writing and so you
[23:30] can go to medium and i know that you can
[23:32] make money on medium and i actually
[23:35] wrote on medium for a very short period
[23:36] of time and
[23:38] it's it it's changed from the early days
[23:41] and i think it's harder to get traction
[23:42] i know they're trying to change some
[23:44] things um i have started a number of
[23:47] facebook pages and written there and
[23:49] i've got some traction i did fairly well
[23:52] but again you know it just it does take
[23:54] time and i think monetizing your writing
[23:57] because if somebody wants to start
[23:59] another stream of income then obviously
[24:01] they want to make more money and i think
[24:03] i personally i just think that you know
[24:06] we have a large
[24:08] instagram page uh i say large but you
[24:11] know it's like ten thousand followers
[24:12] nine thousand followers um that we
[24:15] couldn't monetize to save our lives like
[24:17] it just we it it was just really
[24:20] you know
[24:21] telling about what we were doing but we
[24:22] never monetized it and
[24:24] facebook same thing but on twitter it is
[24:28] very possible to monetize and you can
[24:31] actually make money
[24:33] with writing on twitter and so
[24:35] i'm a big big believer i love to write i
[24:38] love to study writing i love threads and
[24:41] i think there's a lot of opportunity on
[24:43] twitter
[24:44] yep and i remember what you were saying
[24:46] in that space that um
[24:49] twitter writing on twitter in
[24:52] inheritantly not going to give
[24:54] you money but
[24:55] you create your influence you share your
[24:57] knowledge um
[24:59] open-hearted and then um you build a
[25:02] relationship and that's when you you
[25:04] will start selling either affiliate or
[25:07] courses or your own uh um
[25:10] like in your case coaching so
[25:13] yeah there you can there's there's crazy
[25:15] things like uh you know you can be a
[25:17] ghost writer you can be a ghostwriter
[25:18] for a book um and and grow
[25:21] you know an audience or a community
[25:24] around that or you can be a ghostwriter
[25:25] for twitter so literally there are tons
[25:28] of opportunities of or people who want
[25:32] to have a printer twitter presence but
[25:35] they don't know how to write tweets and
[25:37] they don't want to write tweets and they
[25:38] don't have the time to write tweets but
[25:40] they want to have that presence and so
[25:42] there are literally like thousands of
[25:44] people out there right now influencers
[25:46] in real life specifically authors you
[25:49] know or actors or you know people like
[25:52] that that have money but they want to
[25:53] have a twitter presence but they they
[25:55] just don't do it and so you know you
[25:58] just takes a matter of time of reaching
[26:00] out and they pay you to tweet for them
[26:03] and you know you learn their voice and
[26:05] you learn what they would like to tweet
[26:07] and that's part of the program so
[26:09] ghost writing for twitter is a
[26:10] possibility copywriting learning
[26:12] copywriting and and copywriting for
[26:15] businesses on twitter is a possibility
[26:17] um you know i think that newsletters uh
[26:20] paulina marinova is uh she has a um
[26:26] she has a free newsletter she has tens
[26:28] of thousands of subscribers she started
[26:31] this from home she started this
[26:33] newsletter that she sent out it's called
[26:35] the profile she would send it out to her
[26:36] mom and her sisters and friends and then
[26:39] it grew to tens of thousands of people
[26:41] to free
[26:42] uh a free newsletter but from there she
[26:46] has kind of an upgrade if you will and
[26:48] she's got thousands of people that pay
[26:50] her ten dollars a month for her upgraded
[26:52] uh newsletter that's insane like think
[26:54] about that i mean thousands of people
[26:56] paying you you know 10 bucks a month it
[26:59] really is a lot of money her husband
[27:01] anthony pompiano
[27:03] he has
[27:04] same thing but you know
[27:07] there's just he as a creator really and
[27:09] as a writer there's just there's so much
[27:11] opportunity i feel bad because i think i
[27:14] think a lot of people are just really
[27:15] sleeping on this they just don't know
[27:17] it's available and anybody listen i'm 55
[27:20] years old if i you know if i can do it
[27:22] anybody can do it so
[27:25] i want to add one advice and again this
[27:28] is uh this is coming from my personal
[27:30] experience i started my first blog
[27:32] around 2006 7 2006
[27:35] and then i've been writing since then
[27:38] again until last
[27:40] before three years it was all hosh posh
[27:43] whatever i wanted to write i wanted to
[27:45] write
[27:46] my advice is
[27:48] there were time when
[27:51] i think it was around 2012 or 15 or
[27:54] something where i was really getting
[27:56] into
[27:57] and then i started
[27:59] reading all these uh um blog posts or
[28:04] advices they were saying
[28:06] for affiliate market if you're writing
[28:09] you should do affiliate marketing and if
[28:11] you're doing affiliate marketing you
[28:12] don't even need a page you don't even
[28:14] need a blog you just need this this
[28:17] it com so i started following that and
[28:20] it completely killed the momentum
[28:23] because
[28:25] i my heart was into writing
[28:28] and this all advice
[28:30] was how to make money and how to do um
[28:34] this affiliating and and all that
[28:38] don't follow that
[28:40] if you like writing you first probably
[28:42] need to
[28:43] write for a year on whatever topic don't
[28:46] even think about the niche nish was
[28:48] another killer
[28:50] another motivation and
[28:52] the interest killer because you started
[28:54] thinking about niche without even
[28:57] having um any foundational work done
[29:01] um so
[29:03] if you like writing then just write on
[29:06] any topic and then in six months one
[29:09] year
[29:10] you started finding what you are liking
[29:14] uh what you like to write and then uh
[29:16] also what where the response is coming
[29:19] from
[29:20] right
[29:21] and then you tweak and then you start
[29:23] narrowing and that's when um
[29:26] you
[29:27] you probably start adding or your
[29:29] affiliate as well i have multiple
[29:32] articles which is doing really really
[29:33] good and i have added affiliate link
[29:36] there
[29:37] to the book that i have already
[29:38] suggested and but it was after the fact
[29:41] i went back to those article and added
[29:43] the affiliate link i did not write those
[29:45] articles because i wanted to do
[29:47] affiliate marketing
[29:49] i think to to a couple of those points
[29:52] first of all i agree with you completely
[29:53] i think that um
[29:56] if you want to write write
[29:58] i think that don't worry about and what
[30:01] i what i always teach people is just
[30:03] don't worry about monetizing right away
[30:05] what you want to do is build your
[30:06] audience so one tweak i would say is and
[30:09] this was this is massive i i wrote on
[30:11] medium i wrote on a blog i've written on
[30:14] other platforms like uh um instagram and
[30:18] on on facebook but here's the thing with
[30:22] twitter
[30:23] is it is like direct response in other
[30:26] words
[30:26] you can find out
[30:28] what resonates with people immediately
[30:31] like literally every single day
[30:33] they will basically tell you whether or
[30:35] not that's what they want to read or not
[30:37] by how often they like whether they like
[30:40] it or not the problem with blogs is you
[30:42] and i know
[30:44] okay you might get a few comments you
[30:45] might get a few emails back or whatever
[30:47] but the reality is we don't get enough
[30:50] response to give us good feedback and so
[30:53] that's the great thing the thing that i
[30:55] love most about twitter is you get
[30:56] immediate feedback so you can start to
[30:58] narrow in on what it is what do people
[31:01] like and whether or not you like it so
[31:04] that's number one and then you're to
[31:06] your second point you know definitely
[31:08] don't worry about a niche when i started
[31:10] i i thought i was going to write about
[31:11] this and started moving to this and this
[31:14] and it wasn't until i had reached 8 000
[31:17] i don't even know you know how long ago
[31:19] that was but
[31:20] it was at that point that i i just it
[31:22] was literally like lightning i replied
[31:25] to someone and i said uh everything i
[31:28] tweet everything that your dad should
[31:30] have said but didn't
[31:32] and and it just hit like like me i'm
[31:34] like that's exactly who i am and so ever
[31:36] since then
[31:37] my growth has skyrocketed because i knew
[31:40] who i was i knew my voice
[31:43] and i was focused and my audience knows
[31:45] what to expect from me so
[31:48] i think that it's important if you
[31:50] if you want to write i think it you know
[31:53] if you want to become a creator now if
[31:55] you want to just write for yourself i
[31:56] think that's great that's a whole other
[31:57] story then go ahead and blog but if you
[31:59] want to actually you know get feedback
[32:02] immediate feedback from an audience i
[32:06] would i would recommend going on to
[32:08] social media specifically twitter
[32:09] because you just get it immediately
[32:11] they'll tell you i would also i want to
[32:13] just throw out i'm a big reader and i
[32:16] think if you want to be a writer you
[32:17] probably want to read a lot but the book
[32:19] i would recommend every creator but
[32:22] specifically writers to read is called
[32:24] big magic by elizabeth gilbert and
[32:29] that i read that book at least once a
[32:31] year um i've i have read it three times
[32:35] in one year before um
[32:37] it is it is just phenomenal it basically
[32:40] that one of the big ideas of the book is
[32:43] uh you decide if you want to be a writer
[32:46] write nobody's going to come and give
[32:48] you a card that says you're a writer and
[32:51] so if you're a writer and you want to
[32:53] write go and start writing and you can
[32:55] tell people i'm a writer you're writing
[32:57] it's okay you don't need any more
[32:59] permission than that and i i love that
[33:01] as we talking about that topic uh there
[33:03] is another book that i have heard a lot
[33:05] about is show your work
[33:08] and i'm sure you might have already read
[33:11] it no i haven't heard of that that's
[33:12] interesting i'll definitely look that up
[33:14] the theme of the book is uh as you do
[33:17] anything you document and then you kind
[33:19] of
[33:20] keep documenting and then you keep
[33:22] showing to other people in terms of
[33:23] article or writing or whatever it is
[33:26] love it like that's just genius it's i
[33:29] see that all the time on twitter where
[33:31] people are they're showing the process
[33:34] they're showing their growth they're
[33:35] showing what works what doesn't work
[33:37] people love to watch that they were kind
[33:39] of all voyers at heart and we kind of
[33:42] like to watch people you know it's like
[33:44] are they going to crash or is this going
[33:45] to work and so i love that idea i'll
[33:48] definitely look that book up i want to
[33:50] move to the next segment which is um the
[33:53] goal setting
[33:54] how you set your personal and
[33:57] professional goals
[33:59] yeah so i'm pretty basic i actually
[34:02] don't do any kind of new year's
[34:03] resolutions i don't do uh i'm i like a
[34:07] lot of people and i have done it before
[34:09] but a lot of people say you know have a
[34:11] 10-year five-year one-year you know
[34:13] one-month one-week goals i personally
[34:16] just work with one type one basically
[34:18] time frame and that is by quarter so i
[34:21] have my q1 goals i can tell you what i'm
[34:24] doing between
[34:25] now and the end of march and um and then
[34:28] i'll readjust when i get to march
[34:30] because what i like to do is is i like
[34:32] to take a look okay what worked what
[34:34] it's just kind of a quicker
[34:36] uh a more often
[34:38] evaluation of what you're doing and so
[34:40] you know i have of course
[34:43] ministry goals i have
[34:45] business which is really just twitter
[34:47] goals i have personal goals which
[34:49] includes my family and my faith um
[34:51] health goals is also in there and that's
[34:53] a big one but that's in there and so i i
[34:56] basically just do it by quarter i will
[34:58] say that i do have like a list of things
[35:01] that i want if there are things that i
[35:02] want to get done or accomplish or do
[35:05] within the year i will list those um and
[35:08] as soon as i can i like to put those on
[35:10] the calendar um but other as far as like
[35:14] you know business and personal type
[35:17] goals it's really just quarter to
[35:18] quarter i i prefer the i really like
[35:21] just quicker feedback and you know it's
[35:24] basically every day
[35:27] i am taking a look at my list of
[35:30] priorities um i usually have around 10
[35:33] priorities i pick three
[35:35] at a time and i tackle the top three and
[35:38] from those three i find out what is my
[35:40] frog what's the most important one i i
[35:42] do that one first what i like the like
[35:45] my daily work habit is i really like to
[35:48] work four hours a day but four focused
[35:52] hours a day on kind of business things
[35:55] so that leaves the rest of the day for
[35:56] ministry and for personal
[35:59] and so
[36:00] i work in
[36:02] 50 minute increments and i do four of
[36:04] them and i just am focused i close all
[36:08] my tabs i
[36:10] have one thing that i'm working on for
[36:12] that 50 minutes and
[36:15] i you know i'm i just keep super focused
[36:18] and
[36:19] i only have three
[36:21] items that i'm working on at a time on
[36:23] my desk but at every session is a
[36:26] separate thing that i'm working on i
[36:28] don't know if that makes sense it does
[36:30] pomodoro technique
[36:32] yeah i think so i there's two different
[36:34] types of pomodoro techniques one is i
[36:36] think like a 20 minute one and and the
[36:38] other one is 50 minutes i you know i
[36:41] think when i take my breaks my 10-minute
[36:43] break i go outside i sit in the sun and
[36:47] i either meditate or you know spend time
[36:49] with my wife but i try to get out into
[36:52] the sun get some vitamin d try to set my
[36:55] internal clock um so that i you know i
[36:58] can get enough sleep and that kind of
[37:00] just starts my circadian rhythm going
[37:02] and um
[37:04] and just kind of prepares me for the
[37:06] next day so
[37:07] and you able to kind of follow this
[37:09] religiously every day
[37:12] uh i do my best you know i would say
[37:14] probably
[37:15] 50 of the time it doesn't work out that
[37:17] way literally i mean
[37:20] it feels like when you when you run a
[37:22] ministry my priority is my family and my
[37:24] ministry so that all comes before a kind
[37:26] of business that i do and so
[37:29] my i try to put my business for the
[37:31] first four hours of the day because
[37:33] inevitably something comes up in the
[37:35] ministry um
[37:36] you know and so probably two to three
[37:38] days out of the week uh
[37:40] i get sidetracked and i'm not able to
[37:42] complete my full four hours but i try to
[37:44] always get it done first when i'm the
[37:47] freshest because you know
[37:49] i mean just things come up
[37:52] it generally you know fifty percent of
[37:54] the time i don't get to but you have to
[37:56] have a goal you have to have you know
[37:57] you have to have a direction and so big
[38:00] so you have you your focus area
[38:02] throughout the day days your your family
[38:04] then you have church ministry then you
[38:07] have middle school and then you have
[38:09] the coaching and
[38:11] then twitter so it's a lot how you
[38:14] divide the time between them
[38:16] yeah it is a lot i try to put the
[38:18] twitter
[38:19] and you know the coaching i those i
[38:22] consider the same thing so i try to do
[38:24] those at the same um
[38:26] my coaching is literally only five hours
[38:29] per week i only have five clients at any
[38:31] one given time so it's five hours a week
[38:34] and uh outside of that i do some texting
[38:36] so it might be another couple of hours
[38:38] throughout the week but it's really
[38:39] pretty minimal so the rest of the time
[38:41] is just building my audience growing on
[38:43] twitter um you know to grow to 20 000
[38:48] i don't know where i'll be at one year
[38:50] i'm um where are we
[38:53] yeah so february 9th so i've got just
[38:55] over a month i you know i'm probably
[38:57] going to be near
[38:59] just over 20 000 maybe 21 000 in one
[39:02] year and if you want to grow to that
[39:05] size you can there's no reason that you
[39:08] can't be making you know
[39:11] two to five thousand dollars a month um
[39:14] when you're at that level
[39:16] it but you have to be focused and you
[39:18] have to do it and so i do make that a
[39:20] focus and i try to get that done first
[39:23] thing in the morning um so the first
[39:25] four hours that's what i'm doing and
[39:27] and so really it's mostly twitter and
[39:29] then sometimes coaching the coaching
[39:31] like i've got three clients on one day
[39:33] so that's three hours in one day but the
[39:35] rest of the week is pretty open
[39:38] so when you were saying that those four
[39:40] fifty minute session those was actually
[39:42] for the tutor
[39:44] yeah so
[39:46] those are
[39:47] those will be for
[39:50] so
[39:51] it's it's divided in all kinds of
[39:53] different ways but for example uh this
[39:55] morning i was working on my landing page
[39:57] for my coaching business
[39:59] and so i was literally
[40:02] reviewing and making the final edits to
[40:04] the landing page which will be launching
[40:06] any day and then uh the next the next
[40:09] hour was writing tweets i'm going to new
[40:11] york next week uh we're spending a week
[40:13] in new york and so it's beginning to
[40:15] write tweets for next week
[40:17] and so that would be the next 50 minutes
[40:20] and so the next 50 minutes might be you
[40:22] know it generally is going to be within
[40:25] the business of twitter
[40:27] and um coaching so
[40:30] it might be preparing coaching for uh
[40:33] you know somebody that i'm going to be
[40:34] talking to later in the day or something
[40:36] like that
[40:37] in twitter can you schedule these uh to
[40:40] eat for next week
[40:42] so there are applications or i don't
[40:44] know
[40:45] uh
[40:46] service providers that do that so i
[40:48] i am
[40:49] one of the one that i use is um
[40:52] tweet hunter and so yeah i can just go
[40:54] in and schedule it so i'll schedule all
[40:56] of while i'm gone i'll schedule the
[40:58] whole week and just i i only tweet four
[41:00] times a day
[41:02] um so a lot of people tweet a lot more
[41:04] than that but if i do you know four day
[41:06] um
[41:07] yeah i just set them up and
[41:10] yeah um
[41:11] in last one week i've seen um
[41:14] one day which when i was active i feel
[41:17] like by the by the end of the day i said
[41:19] i don't know if i can handle that i have
[41:21] a full-time job
[41:22] and this is everything else is all my
[41:24] part-time
[41:26] i wake up every day four o'clock and
[41:28] from four to seven that's when i do all
[41:30] my
[41:31] and uh sometime in the evening yeah i
[41:34] think you know when you're growing let
[41:35] me just encourage you that because
[41:37] you're you're very new to twitter i
[41:39] would encourage anybody that's new until
[41:41] you hit a thousand only tweet one time a
[41:45] day because if you're tweeting more than
[41:46] that first of all nobody is hearing you
[41:48] there's nobody listening to you you're
[41:49] not going into the twitter verse
[41:51] literally nobody is hearing your tweet
[41:53] so
[41:54] you're tweeting one time a day for
[41:56] actually you write between five and ten
[41:58] tweets
[41:59] and you choose one to post you choose
[42:03] your best one so you're practicing by
[42:05] writing five to ten and if you've got a
[42:07] full-time job maybe you write five you
[42:09] pick your best one and you tweet that
[42:11] tweet like that's it and then if you
[42:13] wanna grow your twitter page the other
[42:16] thing that i recommend is going to
[42:18] bigger accounts
[42:19] that are in the similar niche as you or
[42:22] in their maybe you know have 50 000 or
[42:26] 20 000 or 100 000 followers
[42:29] and turn on the notifications so when
[42:32] they tweet something what you'll do is
[42:34] you'll go in and make a comment on that
[42:36] tweet
[42:37] because now you're getting in front of
[42:39] all of their audience it's kind of like
[42:41] your guest posting on a newsletter
[42:44] i did that yesterday
[42:47] um
[42:48] this i think this this person had a
[42:50] hundred thousand followers i've got
[42:52] twenty thousand
[42:54] he posted something and i picked up a
[42:56] hundred fifty followers
[42:59] because of what i posted it got like
[43:03] 13 or 1400 likes
[43:06] my comment so that doesn't happen very
[43:09] often but that happened yesterday and
[43:11] and you can take that's how you can grow
[43:14] that's honestly that's the only way you
[43:16] can grow
[43:17] in the beginning and so what happens is
[43:20] think about this so you make a comment
[43:22] and they're like wow that's a great
[43:23] comment as a matter of fact the
[43:24] analytics show that over 500 people went
[43:28] to my bio
[43:30] and they decided if they were going to
[43:32] follow me or not and 150
[43:34] followed me
[43:35] so you want to have when they go to your
[43:37] bio you want to have a clean bio you
[43:39] want people to know what they're going
[43:40] to get but more importantly is you want
[43:43] to have
[43:44] good tweets so if you're posting it
[43:46] doesn't matter how many likes you got if
[43:48] they go to your timeline and they look
[43:50] at your tweets they're like oh that's a
[43:51] good tweet that's a good tweet i'm going
[43:52] to follow this guy it doesn't matter how
[43:53] many followers you have does that make
[43:55] sense yeah definitely i want to make a
[43:58] comment you you get 150 follower in one
[44:01] day
[44:02] that's three times my total followers
[44:06] i'm
[44:06] 54.
[44:08] that tweet that you shared did you share
[44:11] a tweet a thread of mine recently that's
[44:14] that thread thank you by the way uh that
[44:17] thread
[44:18] um i picked up 2500 followers in two and
[44:21] a half days
[44:23] so
[44:25] you can you know i just talked to a guy
[44:27] today uh somebody who i did a just a
[44:29] one-time coaching with uh
[44:32] earlier today just like an hour ago and
[44:35] he's right now at like 25 followers a
[44:38] day which is you know that's not bad but
[44:40] he's at like six or seven thousand and
[44:42] the thing about it is like
[44:44] i would rather grow at a hundred
[44:46] a day
[44:48] than 25 so you just have to look for
[44:49] ways to optimize and to get more
[44:52] followers
[44:53] in this one week
[44:55] my experience is when i posted my own
[44:58] story or my own thread there may be one
[45:01] like one comment
[45:03] but when i went uh i retweeted
[45:06] somebody's or if i have uh um tagged
[45:10] somebody and appreciated somebody
[45:13] those got me followers as well as
[45:15] comments and if so how i'm feeling
[45:18] in my first week that if you go and help
[45:21] other people
[45:22] be part of the conversation
[45:24] you get more traction versus just
[45:27] standing there and trying to write your
[45:29] own
[45:31] yeah it's if you just stand there and
[45:33] write your own stuff you will never grow
[45:36] i'm just telling you it's just not going
[45:37] to happen
[45:40] experience so yeah
[45:44] i just noticed we had 901
[45:46] we're gonna just jump to the last
[45:47] section which is perfect your message to
[45:50] the audience
[45:51] wow um a message if i could leave a
[45:54] message
[45:56] i think it would be kind of what my
[45:58] mantra was or what i thought about
[46:00] pretty much all the time last year and
[46:03] it was kind of two parts and that one
[46:05] part was
[46:06] to
[46:08] be more self-aware be uh be aware to be
[46:12] self-aware so just remind yourself to be
[46:15] self-aware
[46:16] of your marriage of your work habits of
[46:20] your health habits like start paying
[46:22] attention
[46:23] to what you're doing so be more
[46:25] self-aware that's the first part but the
[46:27] second part is to be intentional so if
[46:30] you notice that
[46:33] because you're more self-aware and you
[46:35] start noticing listen i'm not eating
[46:36] well and i feel awful
[46:39] then you have to be intentional to
[46:41] change that and to to make a change in
[46:43] your life and so if you are not happy in
[46:47] your marriage you need to be honest with
[46:49] yourself and be self-aware that wait a
[46:51] minute
[46:52] i'm not happy in this marriage and if i
[46:54] keep going down this road it's only it's
[46:57] i'm gonna live a miserable life and then
[47:00] you be you need to be um you know be
[47:04] intentional and say okay well i'm not
[47:06] happy in my marriage so the first step
[47:08] is maybe to express that to your wife
[47:10] and then from there it might be
[47:12] literally it might be reading a book it
[47:14] might be watching uh some some videos or
[47:16] it might be getting counseling or it
[47:18] might just be
[47:19] by being aware that you're not happy in
[47:21] your marriage honestly is just making
[47:24] decision to love your wife more deeply
[47:28] but that the
[47:29] what happens is that i think most people
[47:33] just live their lives without
[47:35] self-awareness and they wake up one day
[47:38] and they're old and they don't love
[47:40] their wife and their kids don't want to
[47:42] spend time with them and they're fat
[47:44] and
[47:45] it's all their own fault it's because
[47:47] they're just not paying attention so we
[47:49] all have that opportunity i highly
[47:51] recommend meditating and just being able
[47:54] to harness the power of our minds and
[47:56] and to be more self-aware so i guess
[47:58] that would be my message to everyone it
[48:00] worked really well it helped me
[48:01] tremendously in 2021
[48:04] george this was nice talking to you
[48:06] thank you so much for your time today
[48:09] thank you i really appreciate your
[48:11] inviting me thank you
[48:23] you

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