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Episode 625:49

#7 Adrian Sakr's: Journey of Managing Studies, Goals, Finance & Life, UF Graduate Student

About Adrian Sakr

Adrian Sakr is an environmental engineering master's student at the University of Florida, focusing on ecological engineering research that integrates ecological theory with applied engineering systems. He graduated with his undergraduate degree in environmental engineering from UF in May 2021 and is currently on a PhD track, planning to continue his studies at UF for several more years.

Episode Summary

  • Adrian shares his academic journey from wanting to be a marine biologist in high school to pursuing environmental engineering at UF with full scholarship support through the Benacquisto scholarship.
  • He discusses his research focus on ecological engineering, aiming to create systems that benefit both human and ecological needs, though he's still exploring his exact career path.
  • The conversation covers financial management strategies for students, including the importance of budgeting, tracking expenses, and starting to invest through IRAs and index funds.
  • Adrian explains his time management approach using Google Calendar extensively and balancing academic work with extracurricular activities like pottery teaching, rock climbing, and running.
  • He reflects on goal-setting methodology, starting with core values around ecology, engineering, and social impact, then developing more specific objectives through experience and reflection.

Key Takeaways

  1. Use a comprehensive calendar system to manage busy schedules - put everything including classes, research, and social activities in one place with reminders.
  2. Start investing early even with small amounts - open an IRA and consider low-fee S&P 500 index funds from reputable companies like Vanguard for long-term growth.
  3. Track your spending patterns first before creating a budget - knowing where your money goes is the foundation of good financial management.
  4. Define your core values and interests first, then use experiences and conversations to refine your specific career goals and path.
  5. Take advantage of scholarship opportunities and in-state tuition benefits to minimize educational debt and financial stress.

Productivity & Success Habits

Adrian Sakr's approach to productivity centers heavily on calendar management and working backwards from big-picture goals. He describes his calendar as "probably the most open website" he has, meticulously scheduling everything from classes and research time to social activities. "I everything that i do every like class or research time or social activity or anything gets put onto the calendar," he explains. His time management operates on two scales: weekly planning through his Google Calendar with reminders set an hour or day in advance, and daily execution where he wakes up knowing his tasks and identifies available time windows.

What sets Adrian apart is his systematic approach to connecting daily tasks with long-term vision. He starts with core values - integrating ecology, engineering, and social welfare - then works backwards to determine immediate actions. "I kind of just start with a really big thing and work backwards all the way down to okay what classes am i going to take this semester which research project do i want to do what paper should i read today," he describes. This reverse-engineering process helps him maintain focus despite feeling "confusing and overwhelming a lot of the time." Adrian acknowledges his productivity system is more short-term focused on a "day-by-day basis," but this granular approach allows him to stay functional while pursuing multiple interests including research, pottery teaching, and various physical activities from rock climbing to tennis.

Final Thoughts & Advice

Adrian's most significant message transcends career advice and speaks to a fundamental life principle he's discovered through his demanding schedule. "I think one of the most important things that i've started to learn over the last few years it's just the importance of being in the moment and appreciating what i'm doing," he shares. Despite being busy from "seven a.m to you know midnight or something," Adrian has realized how easy it is to get caught up in constant activity without truly experiencing it. "It's so easy to just get caught up in all the things that i'm doing and suddenly months and years go by and it's you know it's like what happened where to go."

His advice centers on mindfulness and presence: "learning to just stop and appreciate my environment and really think about what i'm doing... and that's rooted in you know breathing and looking and listening." Adrian emphasizes that this practice of being present "has been you know just extremely beneficial for me in every aspect of my life." He presents this wisdom as something that "applies to everybody regardless of age or position," expressing regret that he didn't discover it earlier. This message resonates particularly because it comes from someone actively managing the competing demands of graduate studies, research, teaching, and personal pursuits - making his advocacy for mindfulness both authentic and practical.

Notable Quotes

"Every day I'm busy from seven a.m to you know midnight or something and so it's so easy to just get caught up in all the things that I'm doing and suddenly months and years go by and it's you know it's like what happened really go the importance of being in the moment and appreciating what I'm doing"

Adrian Sakr Adrian reflects on how easy it is to lose track of time when constantly busy and the importance of mindful presence.

"I've developed a more accurate idea of what I want to be doing what I want my impact on the world to be I just haven't figured out yet what kind of job that would be"

Adrian Sakr Adrian explains how his college experience helped him clarify his desired impact rather than a specific career path.

"For me it's easy to you know buy a lot of small things and it doesn't seem like it's a big deal but they add up fast"

Adrian Sakr Adrian discusses his spending habits and how small purchases can accumulate into significant expenses.

Episode transcript
[0:00] my name is adrian zaker the kind of
[0:02] impacts that i want to have on the world
[0:04] every day i'm busy from seven a.m to you
[0:07] know midnight or something
[0:09] and so it's so easy to just get caught
[0:12] up in all the things that i'm doing and
[0:13] suddenly months and years go by and it's
[0:16] you know it's like what happened really
[0:17] go
[0:18] the importance of
[0:19] being in the moment and appreciating
[0:21] what i'm doing
[0:27] we will start with sharing a background
[0:29] about
[0:30] who adrian is my name is adrian saker
[0:35] i am a
[0:37] environmental engineering master's
[0:38] student right now uf i just graduated my
[0:42] undergraduate degree this past may um
[0:44] since spring of 2021 and environmental
[0:46] engineering from uf
[0:48] i am
[0:50] currently
[0:51] my research focus is ecological
[0:53] engineering um so i'm looking at ways to
[0:55] integrate ecological theory with applied
[0:58] engineering systems and
[1:00] have
[1:01] benefits for both anthropogenic and
[1:03] ecological systems
[1:06] through engineering projects
[1:08] i'm currently i'm on a phd track i
[1:10] suppose so um once i finish my master's
[1:13] degree next spring i'll start on my phd
[1:15] and i'll probably do it at uf so i'll be
[1:17] here for a few years yet
[1:21] very much i'm still
[1:23] figuring out
[1:24] what exactly it is i want to do
[1:26] in terms of research and life in general
[1:29] i
[1:31] want to
[1:33] my driving motivators to
[1:36] integrate both ecological and
[1:38] anthropological benefits in what i do
[1:41] and it's
[1:42] been pretty hard to find that balance so
[1:45] far so i'm still
[1:47] exploring and
[1:50] just trying to find my way
[1:54] in terms of who i am i suppose besides
[1:55] academics because that's a relatively
[1:57] small part of it i think
[2:00] i
[2:01] like to exercise a lot i do a lot of
[2:04] running and biking and rock climbing and
[2:07] tennis and other things and i also teach
[2:10] pottery
[2:11] at a pottery studio here at uf
[2:14] so i do pottery pretty much every day as
[2:15] well
[2:16] and i suppose those are the
[2:19] main aspects of
[2:21] who i am in terms of what i do
[2:23] you've been in uf for i think five years
[2:26] now or six
[2:28] five yeah five years
[2:29] so
[2:30] in these five years what you wanted to
[2:32] become in highest school and now is
[2:36] there a change uh what we wanted to
[2:38] become originally
[2:41] i think it's changed
[2:43] in so far as i didn't really know going
[2:45] into it
[2:46] so it's just changing that i've
[2:48] developed a somewhat clear idea of what
[2:51] i want to do
[2:53] when i started
[2:56] so i guess if we're talking about what i
[2:57] want to do it kind of is rooted back in
[3:00] high school
[3:02] right so
[3:03] first
[3:05] before in high school starting off i
[3:06] wanted to be a marine biologist that was
[3:09] my
[3:10] um
[3:11] kind of childhood
[3:13] ambition
[3:15] um
[3:16] and then
[3:17] through high school i guess that sort of
[3:20] got tempered by reality and i kind of
[3:22] had to you know reconsider a little bit
[3:24] and i kind of didn't really know exactly
[3:26] what i wanted to do
[3:27] um and then i spoke with
[3:30] a friend of my mom's he was an
[3:32] environmental engineer and i didn't even
[3:34] know what environmental engineering was
[3:35] before this wasn't
[3:37] maybe sophomore junior year of high
[3:38] school
[3:39] um and he said yeah you can
[3:42] do both ecological work and also have
[3:46] you know applied engineering
[3:48] impacts on society and also make a
[3:51] little bit more money than a marine
[3:52] biologist would
[3:53] um so i decided to i applied to colleges
[3:56] under environmental engineering not
[3:58] fully knowing what it was or what i
[4:00] wanted to do in it but it just kind of
[4:02] sounding like a good
[4:04] um you know balance of various interests
[4:08] so at the beginning of college when i
[4:10] started my undergraduate degree i
[4:12] had a vague idea of what i wanted to do
[4:14] but it was very much not clear at all
[4:18] so over the four years during undergrad
[4:22] i think it kind of
[4:24] crystallized into
[4:27] not necessarily having a clear idea of
[4:29] um the work or you know what kind of job
[4:33] i wanted to have but
[4:34] the kind of impacts that i want to have
[4:36] on the world
[4:38] and so
[4:39] you know i'm still just now coming out
[4:40] of undergraduate so i think where i am
[4:42] now is that
[4:44] i've
[4:45] developed a more
[4:47] accurate idea of what i want to be doing
[4:50] what i want my
[4:51] impact on the world to be i just haven't
[4:53] figured out yet what kind of job that
[4:56] would
[4:57] be
[5:00] well we will see the journey right
[5:02] yeah
[5:06] how did you prepare your college list
[5:08] and
[5:09] what was your journey for your admission
[5:12] um
[5:14] i think i probably put a lot less effort
[5:16] into preparing my college list than i
[5:19] could or should have
[5:22] the
[5:23] i was pretty burned out by the end of
[5:25] high school and i
[5:27] wasn't really inclined to put much
[5:28] effort into anything
[5:30] um i was definitely focusing on in-state
[5:32] schools just because tuition was cheaper
[5:35] um and also at the end of high school i
[5:37] got the benekisto scholarship
[5:39] which
[5:40] pays full cost of attendance for any um
[5:43] in-state university that's through the
[5:45] nms qt
[5:48] so
[5:50] that's kind of
[5:52] pretty much made my decision for me um i
[5:55] had looked at some out-of-state schools
[5:57] just to you know i had always wanted to
[5:59] move out of state
[6:00] um and so i thought it would be nice to
[6:02] go to california or the northeast or
[6:04] something or even internationally and i
[6:06] looked at and applied to a few schools
[6:07] there
[6:08] um but i was only i think really
[6:10] seriously considering in-state schools
[6:12] for tuition reasons
[6:14] um and obviously this keystone
[6:16] scholarship
[6:17] um
[6:18] so
[6:20] yeah i applied to most in state schools
[6:23] actually maybe not that many but once i
[6:24] got into uf um that pretty much sealed
[6:27] the deal for me
[6:30] that he was the national scholar as well
[6:33] benny crystal scholarship
[6:35] covers 100 of your tuition as well as
[6:38] resident i mean any expense that you
[6:40] have so you probably have not spent any
[6:43] time from your pocket
[6:45] in last five years yes yeah
[6:48] and uh um i don't know if you know but
[6:50] my son vadik he also got benefits
[6:53] scholarship
[6:55] so he had a choice between
[6:57] georgia tech
[6:58] and
[7:00] uf
[7:01] and he selected uf because he was unsure
[7:05] whether he want to go in the engineering
[7:06] path or medical path
[7:09] and then um uf was covering 100 percent
[7:12] of this scholarship
[7:17] so as we are on a scholarship of finance
[7:20] sections you've been there five years um
[7:24] on your own how do you manage your
[7:26] finance and do you do a written budget
[7:29] or something
[7:32] no
[7:33] i'm not very proud of that it's really
[7:35] just thanks to you know having been a
[7:37] quisto and
[7:39] honestly just having enough money to be
[7:41] comfortable
[7:42] without having to keep track of my money
[7:44] too closely i definitely think that
[7:47] um
[7:48] everyone should do a budget and i should
[7:50] do a budget and
[7:51] i kind of wish that i were forced
[7:55] more acutely to develop better financial
[7:57] management skills um because i need to
[8:00] now
[8:01] um and you know so i wish i just started
[8:03] thinking about it earlier
[8:05] um i think regardless of what one's
[8:08] financial position is it's good to have
[8:10] a budget
[8:11] but for me i was always
[8:13] i never
[8:14] needed to track my finances that closely
[8:17] um
[8:19] and so i kind of just
[8:21] lived comfortably without thinking about
[8:23] money too much
[8:25] so a tip for you
[8:28] uh there are many online budget software
[8:31] uh but the one that i use personally is
[8:35] called every dollar
[8:38] and
[8:39] it came from
[8:40] dave ramsey which is kind of close to
[8:44] the
[8:45] the
[8:46] philosophy money philosophy that my
[8:49] parents and their parents have used that
[8:52] don't use too much credit um pay for a
[8:56] pay cash or
[8:58] spend
[8:59] less than what you earn
[9:01] so based on that so um if
[9:05] you're interested go to everydollar.com
[9:08] and then create an account it's a free
[9:10] account unless you want your
[9:14] bank account automatically linked to
[9:17] this
[9:18] um otherwise the free account you can
[9:20] create budget and you can also learn
[9:24] uh what this mean right what budgeting
[9:26] mean
[9:28] where you spend most of your money
[9:31] what's your biggest expense
[9:34] that is a good question
[9:36] i would say i mean obviously rent and
[9:38] food are the two biggest monthly
[9:40] expenses
[9:41] um
[9:43] besides that
[9:44] i guess a monthly subscription to a
[9:48] membership to a climbing gym
[9:50] and
[9:51] just a lot of other miscellaneous things
[9:53] that all seem small in the moment but
[9:56] add up to
[9:57] uh you know significant monthly
[9:59] expenditures
[10:01] um i think for me it's easy to
[10:05] you know
[10:06] buy a lot of small things and it doesn't
[10:07] seem like it's a big deal but they add
[10:10] up fast
[10:11] just like time management adrian what
[10:13] you're doing is you're tracking
[10:16] your spending
[10:17] you know that what you have spent up and
[10:21] and in time management that's kind of
[10:23] the first thing that you try to know
[10:25] uh how you spend your time and then you
[10:29] go to the next level where you plan
[10:32] before you spend your time right so
[10:34] you're already there you're halfway
[10:36] there
[10:38] and most people and some people don't
[10:39] even do that it's sad but that's a
[10:42] reality today
[10:44] yeah
[10:49] well we we're spending a lot of time on
[10:51] finance and i wanted to ask more
[10:53] questions on finance um and
[10:56] so tracking of your money
[10:58] budgeting for your money
[11:00] and then the third level next level is
[11:03] uh uh investing your money do you do any
[11:06] kind of investing
[11:08] i did actually just open an ira
[11:10] a couple of
[11:12] um that's about the extent of it i've
[11:15] started trying to get into it a little
[11:17] bit now that i just have more savings
[11:19] it's really just since getting this
[11:21] scholarship the fellowship now that i
[11:23] have
[11:24] any kind of real
[11:26] monthly savings so now i'm starting to
[11:28] get into it a little bit
[11:30] and i definitely know lots of other
[11:31] people my age in college who do a lot of
[11:33] investing and have and make a lot of
[11:35] money from it
[11:37] for me i'm kind of just starting
[11:39] i personally would like to have more
[11:41] secure long-term things so the ira was
[11:44] the first priority for me
[11:46] um
[11:47] and so i'm just putting you know a few
[11:49] hundred into that every month
[11:51] but um
[11:53] i would also like to open a cma or they
[11:55] can get into
[11:57] more volatile short-term things but
[11:59] it's very much upgrading
[12:02] yeah yeah
[12:04] last question on this
[12:05] when you're investing in a roth ira
[12:08] where are you putting are you buying
[12:09] individual stock are you buying a fund
[12:12] or what
[12:14] um i actually so i only have um stock
[12:18] right now and it's over in a couple of
[12:20] companies
[12:21] um
[12:22] but yeah i'm still i just started it so
[12:25] i'm still just trying to figure out what
[12:26] i want to put the money into
[12:28] yeah as long as you know that this
[12:30] company can survive next 10 20 years it
[12:33] will grow definitely and then another
[12:36] safest option is to buy or
[12:39] regularly invest in s p 500 based on and
[12:43] there are some from vanguard
[12:45] which has low fees
[12:48] and good reputation so you have to look
[12:50] last 10 15 20 years of s p 500.
[12:58] during all this time uh adrian have you
[13:00] done any internship or job
[13:03] while you were studying
[13:04] i worked as a studio assistant at the
[13:07] pottery studio for
[13:09] two years during undergrad
[13:11] um so that was just a part time like 10
[13:14] 15 hours a week minimum wage
[13:16] mostly just because i enjoyed it yeah
[13:18] i'm a small source of additional income
[13:19] but i just
[13:20] like spending time with the pottery
[13:22] studio
[13:23] um and now i also teach the pottery
[13:25] classes so that's uh
[13:27] just a few hours a week um but
[13:30] yeah so just a little bit of additional
[13:31] money but most of the income comes from
[13:33] scholarships or fellowships
[13:36] um so i had internships in high school i
[13:39] did two research internships
[13:41] at different institutions
[13:43] while i was in high school
[13:45] and since starting undergrad i've been
[13:47] doing research um for i did research for
[13:50] all four years that i was an undergrad
[13:52] um so i was working in a lab and leading
[13:54] on projects
[13:55] but as far as specific internships gone
[13:58] i didn't have any
[14:00] um
[14:02] any of those most people in engineering
[14:05] do some kind of engineering like summer
[14:07] contracting internship
[14:09] um contracting being the biggest
[14:12] occupation in environmental engineering
[14:14] so
[14:15] most people do some kind of summer
[14:16] internship and
[14:18] you know work for some contracting firm
[14:20] doing water waste water treatment or
[14:22] something like that
[14:24] for me i've never really
[14:27] the conventional environmental
[14:28] engineering jobs that never really
[14:29] appealed to me um so i never really had
[14:31] any interest in getting any kind of
[14:33] internship like that
[14:34] and those are just most of the
[14:35] internships that are available
[14:38] um
[14:38] so i think
[14:40] for me i haven't done any internships
[14:42] because
[14:44] the ones available didn't really align
[14:46] with what i want to do and i'm still
[14:47] just trying to figure out what it is
[14:49] that i want to do okay
[14:54] so changing the topic to
[14:56] time management
[14:57] you have
[14:58] obviously
[15:00] a very busy schedule
[15:02] you have college
[15:04] bunch of classes then you do research
[15:06] and then um
[15:08] many other things right so how do you
[15:09] manage your time
[15:12] um
[15:13] my calendar is probably the most open
[15:16] website
[15:17] um
[15:18] that i have you know right now
[15:20] i everything that i do every like class
[15:23] or research time or social activity or
[15:26] anything gets put onto the calendar
[15:28] um i guess it's a combination of
[15:31] on like a weekly scale i have everything
[15:32] in the calendar and so
[15:34] um i kind of just check every day and i
[15:37] see what i have for the whole week or
[15:38] for the next few days um and then just
[15:41] figure out
[15:42] you know in between my obligations what
[15:44] time i have to study or eat or
[15:46] do whatever i need to do
[15:48] um
[15:49] and then on a daily scale it's really
[15:51] more just
[15:53] waking up in the morning knowing what
[15:55] are the tasks that i have to achieve
[15:57] that day and then just figuring out what
[15:59] time i have you know what windows i have
[16:01] to do it
[16:03] i guess it's really pretty
[16:04] my time management is more short-term
[16:07] focused um really more on a day-by-day
[16:10] basis
[16:11] um
[16:12] kind of just trying to figure out you
[16:14] know
[16:15] when i can do what and between classes
[16:17] and everything else each day
[16:19] and you know maybe what i'm going to do
[16:21] in the evening as far as
[16:23] climbing or watching a movie or
[16:24] something
[16:26] um
[16:27] but definitely i think the calendar is
[16:29] the most important resource for me just
[16:31] being able to see everything and have it
[16:33] and i set um you know reminders for
[16:36] every events like an hour or a day in
[16:37] advance so i don't forget about anything
[16:40] and that's really what keeps me
[16:41] functional
[16:43] are you using google calendar yeah yeah
[16:46] and then for your task list are you
[16:48] using an application or a notebook so
[16:51] the canvas application the uf elearning
[16:54] portal
[16:55] um provides like summary lists of all of
[16:57] your assignments for the day and that's
[17:00] usually most of what i'm doing each day
[17:01] is whatever you know homework tasks i've
[17:03] got coming up
[17:05] um so that's the most
[17:07] the easiest way to see what i have to do
[17:10] um
[17:11] but besides that now
[17:13] okay
[17:18] time management to your big goals and
[17:21] dreams the dreams and big goals are two
[17:24] years five years from now right um how
[17:27] do you manage that
[17:28] how do you identify what those are
[17:32] that's a good question
[17:34] um
[17:37] i think so i've been thinking a lot
[17:40] about this especially the last six
[17:41] months since graduating and now i'm
[17:43] trying to find my own personal path in
[17:45] grad school
[17:46] um
[17:48] so i think i kind of started off with
[17:50] some very vague parameters of what i
[17:52] want my what my goals and dreams are you
[17:54] know i had some
[17:57] you know vague idea that i wanted to
[17:58] incorporate ecology and engineering and
[18:01] social welfare
[18:03] into some kind of
[18:05] you know composite role that meets all
[18:07] three needs
[18:08] um
[18:09] and so
[18:11] that's you know my
[18:13] ultimate like you know
[18:15] top
[18:17] uh kind of idea and everything else is
[18:19] built off of that
[18:21] and so from that core i kind of
[18:23] develop a little bit more detail and get
[18:25] a little bit more focused focus
[18:27] and so the more i think about it and the
[18:29] more i talk to people and i do research
[18:31] work and i take my classes and i kind of
[18:34] get a better sense of how these three
[18:35] things work together and how they exist
[18:37] in the world
[18:38] i kind of start to
[18:40] clarify
[18:42] um you know what kind of ecological work
[18:44] i want to do or what kind of social
[18:46] impact that i can have or what
[18:47] engineering systems exist to satisfy
[18:50] those
[18:52] and so i guess my process of goals slash
[18:55] dream identification
[18:57] starts with this kind of core
[18:59] um
[19:01] and where that comes from i honestly
[19:03] can't say i suppose the ecological
[19:04] aspect comes from a you know childhood
[19:07] interest in marine biology
[19:09] and the engineering is just you know
[19:11] liking math and physics and wanting to
[19:14] have an applied impact on the world
[19:16] and the social just from you know
[19:19] seeing issues in the world wanting to
[19:21] help fix it
[19:23] so
[19:24] i suppose i just start with this very
[19:26] fuzzy idea and kind of increase
[19:29] resolution as i go
[19:30] and so in terms of applying that to my
[19:32] you know current time management
[19:35] i think i especially lately with me
[19:38] trying to figure out you know what kind
[19:39] of research work or anything i want to
[19:41] do
[19:42] i start and you know that's been a
[19:45] spectacularly difficult process just
[19:47] especially with this fellowship and i
[19:49] can do whatever research i want you know
[19:51] i have the whole
[19:53] world of research essentially to pick
[19:55] from
[19:56] and so i've been trying to kind of start
[19:58] with this core idea and kind of work
[20:00] backwards so if i say
[20:02] you know i want to do something like
[20:03] living short lines which is you know the
[20:05] application of ecological systems to
[20:07] like coastal protection wave attenuation
[20:10] water
[20:11] clarification stuff like that
[20:13] i'll kind of say okay you know what do i
[20:15] have to do to get there what is the
[20:18] previous step to implementing a
[20:19] full-scale living shoreline project
[20:22] um what kind of
[20:23] social benefits will that have you know
[20:25] how can i learn more about what that is
[20:27] and so i kind of just start with a
[20:29] really big thing
[20:30] and work backwards
[20:32] all the way down to okay what classes am
[20:34] i going to take this semester which
[20:36] research project do i want to do what
[20:37] paper should i read today
[20:39] um
[20:40] and that's
[20:42] you know it has
[20:44] varying levels of
[20:46] success depending on how motivated i am
[20:48] on a given day but that's generally the
[20:50] idea i think
[20:52] that's amazing
[20:54] many people after 10 15 years of job
[20:57] does not have this type of clarity that
[20:59] you have
[21:00] adrian
[21:02] it hardly seems like clarity but
[21:08] yeah it
[21:09] definitely on a day-to-day basis
[21:12] feels confusing and overwhelming a lot
[21:14] of the time um
[21:17] this happens to the people
[21:19] i mean that's my experience who want to
[21:21] do a lot
[21:23] um
[21:24] that's when you feel this and then the
[21:27] one solution for that is
[21:30] every day you pick up the top three
[21:32] things that you will finish
[21:35] and
[21:36] just
[21:37] you finishing one two or all three of
[21:40] those
[21:41] will give you a tremendous boost in
[21:43] everything you're doing in your life
[21:46] and i recently published a video i
[21:50] highly recommend you watching because
[21:52] she specifically said we have to think
[21:56] in
[21:57] 10
[21:58] 20 years
[22:00] duration and many
[22:02] time we don't have that patience
[22:05] to kind of
[22:08] wait and work that long
[22:11] so what are your big goals right now
[22:14] i suppose like so you know finishing my
[22:16] master's degree is a
[22:19] moderately big goal i guess
[22:21] um getting a phd after that is a
[22:23] slightly larger goal
[22:26] [Music]
[22:28] and then just
[22:29] being able to positively impact the
[22:31] world while doing something i enjoy
[22:35] is
[22:36] the ultimate goal
[22:38] how about family
[22:40] um
[22:42] in terms of me having my own family yes
[22:45] yeah i guess it's definitely
[22:48] something that exists in the back of my
[22:49] mind
[22:50] um
[22:52] i guess
[22:53] yeah it's something that i would like to
[22:54] have one day
[22:56] um
[22:57] but
[22:58] definitely not something that
[23:00] i think about or that i really need to
[23:03] think about at this point
[23:06] um
[23:07] but yeah it would be nice eventually
[23:14] i wanted to ask for your message to the
[23:17] audience i think the most
[23:21] significant or meaningful message that i
[23:23] have to offer anyone kind of applies to
[23:26] everybody regardless of
[23:28] age or position
[23:30] i think one of the most important things
[23:32] that i've started to learn
[23:33] over the last few years it's just the
[23:36] importance of
[23:37] being in the moment and appreciating
[23:39] what i'm doing
[23:40] um because that's always been such a
[23:41] difficult thing for me and i do so much
[23:44] every day i'm busy from seven a.m to you
[23:46] know midnight or something
[23:48] and so it's so easy to just get caught
[23:51] up in all the things that i'm doing and
[23:53] suddenly months and years go by and it's
[23:55] you know it's like what happened where
[23:56] to go
[23:58] um and so for me learning to
[24:01] just stop and appreciate my environment
[24:03] and really think about what i'm doing
[24:05] um you know and that's rooted in
[24:08] you know breathing and looking and
[24:10] listening just
[24:12] that's been you know just extremely
[24:14] beneficial for me in every aspect of my
[24:17] life and so i think that that's
[24:20] the most important thing
[24:22] that i wish i had been able to do
[24:24] earlier and so that i suppose
[24:26] i can offer it to other people
[24:30] thank you so much for your time today
[24:32] adrian it was fun chatting with you
[24:35] um
[24:35] [Music]
[24:37] and i think um
[24:39] i would like to re-engage months from
[24:42] now years from now and continue to have
[24:44] this conversation and able to share
[24:47] that how you grew from this conversation
[24:50] and today's life to
[24:52] a few years from now
[24:54] okay yeah thanks that sounds good i may
[24:57] actually so
[24:59] this conversation has
[25:01] caused me to reflect on both my
[25:03] financial and time management and i
[25:05] think i need to pursue both of those
[25:07] with a little bit more organization so i
[25:09] may ask you some questions
[25:11] as i started figuring things out about
[25:13] that but yeah maybe we have more focused
[25:16] conversation around that next time
[25:19] but
[25:20] but i love talking about those topics
[25:22] and i can help
[25:24] anyway um
[25:26] by providing the material by sharing my
[25:28] experience and anything that you need
[25:30] adrian i would really happy to do that
[25:33] thanks
[25:35] okay good to talk to you this is really
[25:37] fun
[25:48] you

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